Off Topic – The Process Before and After a Divorce Experience

offtopicgraphicsWritten by Robert Voss

In any relationship there are good times and bad times through thick and thin most people stick together. When one notices thing going down hill then it is time to make some changes. I am writing this article from experience and I’m not a licensed psychologist. I had known my ex-wife since we were in grade school. Then toward the end of our relationship I notice many things that were not good. I will spare you the details.

I tried to salvage our marriage, I told me ex-wife at the time lets go for counseling. She refused and still thought everything was going great, which is was not. She was not as loving as much towards the end of our relationship. I felt I tried everything possible to make it work. I hated the “D” word and said I would never go through with it. So I had not choice but to move on with my life.

I made a game plan to move out of her place without her knowing about it. It took some legwork to do it. First, I had already started packing some thing up and moving it out of her place. My ex-wife at the time was a work when I pulled this off. When she got home she was ringing off my phone. I did not answer the phone from her. We needed a cooling off period. She was extremely upset about what was happening.

Secondly, I had to find another place to live temporary until my renter moved out of my place. Luckily a good co-worker let me move into her place temporarily. I paid her rent while I was there for a month.

Once I moved out, I filed the paperwork with the court system. Both parties had to be present to move the divorce forward. It took a few months to get a court date to finalize the divorce.

When the court day came, it went very smoothly in front of a judge. The judge asks a few questions and she signs off on one’s divorce, then on with your life as a single person again. Don’t forget to file these legal documents because you may need them in the future.

I hope my personal story helps you if you’re in the process of leaving your spouse. This is not an easy thing to go through in anyone’s life. Be patient while going through the divorce process. Also, don’t hold bad feelings about your former spouse. One begins a new chapter in life.

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Source of information: First hand experience

 

 

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